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Write It Without Spiralling cover - a mini writing companion for anyone who keeps checking, by Darcy Dawe

About This Guide

Sometimes one moment stays with us long after everything else has moved on.

A photograph.
A message.
A conversation.
A memory that keeps returning.

This guide invites you to spend a few minutes with one of those moments.

Not to explain everything.
Not to write your whole story.

Simply to notice what happened, what it seemed to mean, and what stands out now that you've put it into words.

If those few pages help something become a little clearer, My Story Matters continues that same process through a guided memoir writing companion.

One moment.
One memory.
One piece of the story at a time.

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The Moment Everything Changed

When you think about this experience, what moment stands out most clearly?

Not the whole relationship.
Not everything that happened.
Just one moment.

Example

I saw photos of them with someone new.
I remember exactly where I was standing when I saw them.
My stomach dropped before I had time to think.

Your turn:

What happened?
What moment still stands out?

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Two

What Did You Tell Yourself?

What did that moment seem to mean?
Not what actually happened.
What did your mind immediately tell you?

Example

Maybe they have already moved on.
Maybe they are happier now.
Maybe I did not matter.

Your turn:

What story did your mind create in that moment?
What did you tell yourself it meant?

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Three

What Stands Out Now?

The purpose of writing is not to find the perfect answer.
Often the value comes from seeing something that was difficult to see before.

Not a conclusion.
Not a lesson.
Just an observation.

Example

What stands out now is that I wasn't really looking for information.
I was looking for reassurance.
That changes what I actually need.

Your turn:

As you sit with what you have written, what stands out now?
What feels clearer than it did before?

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Continue the Story

You've just put words around something that may have been difficult to explain.

What you've written is only the beginning.

Inside My Story Matters, you'll continue exploring:

  • the moments you still think about
  • the meaning you gave them at the time
  • the thoughts that keep returning
  • the parts of the story that still feel unfinished
  • what stands out now that you've written it down

The goal is not to write a perfect memoir.
The goal is to understand your story differently.

My Story Matters

A guided memoir writing companion for exploring your story, making sense of your experience, and recording what mattered.

Explore the guide →

Explore more at darcydawe.com

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Available in the full version
About

A Different Way to Write Your Story

Most people think writing a memoir means starting at the beginning.

That can feel overwhelming.

You sit in front of a blank page wondering where to start.
Or you think you need to remember everything before you can write anything.

This guide works differently.

Instead of asking you to tell your whole story, it begins with one moment that still stays with you.

From there, another memory often comes.
Then another.

Before long, you begin to see connections you couldn't see before.

You don't need to remember everything.
You only need somewhere to begin.

Contents

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THE SCROLL COLLECTION

More from Darcy Dawe.

Each part of the Scroll Collection is designed to support a different stage of the same journey.

My Story Matters
Breaking Free From the Scroll
The Scroll Tracker